Counsellor A.J. Mahari
A.J. Mahari
10 Ways BPD Relationship Recycling Increases Your Suffering
10 Ways BPD Relationship Recycling Increases Your Suffering
10 Ways BPD Relationship Recycling Increases Your Suffering
Saturday 6th September 2025
A.J. Mahari reveals ten ways BPD relationship recycling increases suffering and offers strategies for harm reduction and healing.
34 minutes
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Counsellor A.J. Mahari
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Healing Relationships
Navigating Intimate Relationships
Recovery from Trauma
Navigating Challenges in Recovery
Navigating Alcohol Dependency
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Episode Overview
- Understand how BPD relationship recycling intensifies suffering.
- Recognise the role of trauma bonds and fantasy bonds.
- Learn why ghosting triggers abandonment fears.
- Explore the impact of childhood wounds on current relationships.
- Discover harm reduction strategies for breaking free.
Ghosting becomes interpreted as a temporary setback rather than evidence of just how unhealthy this dynamic is.
What makes a relationship with someone who has Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) so challenging? A.J. Mahari dives into the complexities of BPD relationship recycling and the ways it intensifies suffering. If you're caught in this cycle, Mahari offers ten insightful points on why breaking free is crucial for your well-being. From the trauma bonds that keep you tethered to the illusion of love, to the cognitive dissonance that leaves you questioning reality, Mahari covers it all.
She explores how ghosting triggers abandonment fears and how the fantasy bond keeps you hooked despite the chaos. Mahari doesn't shy away from tough truths, highlighting how codependency plays a significant role in perpetuating these unhealthy dynamics. She encourages listeners to seek harm reduction by ending the cycle and going full no contact. With over 30 years of experience, Mahari's expertise shines through as she explains how these patterns mirror childhood wounds and emotional neglect.
Her advice is clear: it's time to reclaim your life, heal from past trauma, and find your own path to recovery. So, if you're stuck in a BPD relationship loop, Mahari's insights might be just what you need to start your journey towards healing. Have you ever considered how your own boundaries might be playing a role in these relationship dynamics?