Parenting After Sobriety: Tackling the Real Challenges
Episode Overview
Quitting alcohol is often easier than managing emotions post-sobriety. Sobriety can shift family dynamics, leading to unexpected challenges. Patience and persistence are key in rebuilding trust with children. Managing anger involves choosing not to react impulsively. Therapy can provide valuable support during emotional recovery.
"Quitting drinking was the easiest part."
How do you parent after sobriety when the real work begins? In this episode of The One Day At A Time Recovery Podcast, host Arlina Allen chats with Zach Brittle, a therapist and author, who candidly shares his journey of parenting post-sobriety. Zach opens up about the surprising challenges he faced, noting that quitting drinking was the easy part compared to dealing with anger, resentment, and emotional reactivity.
For parents in recovery, these emotions can be especially tricky to navigate as they work to rebuild trust and relationships with their children. Zach's personal anecdotes highlight the ripple effect of sobriety within a family system. As he explains, when one person gets sober, the entire family dynamic shifts, often leading to unexpected challenges. His story is a testament to the importance of patience and persistence in healing relationships.
Zach shares how he managed his own emotional responses, choosing not to take the bait during heated moments with his children, and instead offering them the space to express themselves. This episode is packed with practical advice for anyone in recovery who is navigating family dynamics. Zach’s experiences remind us that while sobriety might be the first step, the journey of emotional recovery and parenting is ongoing. How do you handle anger and resentment in your own life?
Reflect on Zach's journey and see what resonates with you.