Counsellor A.J. Mahari
A.J. Mahari
Borderline Love a Looping Trap of Deception
Borderline Love a Looping Trap of Deception
Borderline Love a Looping Trap of Deception
Saturday 11th October 2025
Explore the complexities of BPD relationships with A.J. Mahari, uncovering trauma bonds and paths to healing.
30 minutes
Informative
Inspiring
Compassionate
Hopeful
Honest
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Author:
Counsellor A.J. Mahari
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Healing Relationships
Navigating Intimate Relationships
Recovery from Trauma
Navigating Challenges in Recovery
Navigating Alcohol Dependency
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Episode Overview
- Trauma bonds are emotional and neurological loops that trap individuals in toxic relationships.
- Self-validation and healing from codependency are essential for breaking free.
- Childhood experiences shape vulnerability to unhealthy relationships.
- True love is calm, consistent, and reciprocal, not chaotic or anxiety-inducing.
- Breaking free involves understanding trauma bonds and reclaiming one's identity.
"Breaking free isn't about willpower; it's about healing the parts of you that are still waiting for love to feel safe."
How do people find strength in their journey to sobriety? In this gripping episode of 'Surviving BPD Relationship Breakups,' host A.J. Mahari, a seasoned counsellor and trauma recovery coach, unpacks the intricate web of deception and false hope that ensnares those involved with individuals with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD). With over 30 years of experience, A.J. provides listeners with an eye-opening exploration into the trauma bonds that make leaving such relationships feel impossible.
The episode is a deep dive into understanding how trauma bonds form and why they are so addictive. A.J. explains that these bonds are not a reflection of weakness but rather a complex emotional and neurological loop that conditions individuals to equate love with chaos and anxiety. Listeners are guided through the psychological conditioning that ties them to their partners, despite the evident toxicity. A.J.
highlights the importance of self-validation and healing from codependency as crucial steps towards breaking free from these unhealthy attachments. The episode also delves into the role of childhood experiences in shaping one's vulnerability to such relationships, emphasising the need for inner child healing. With compassion and honesty, A.J. encourages listeners to embark on a journey of self-discovery and healing, reminding them that true love is calm, consistent, and reciprocal.
This episode is not just about understanding the dynamics of BPD relationships but also about reclaiming one's identity and peace. If you've ever felt trapped in a cycle of hope and hurt, this episode offers a roadmap to freedom and self-empowerment. Are you ready to choose peace over chaos?