Counsellor A.J. Mahari

Surviving BPD Relationship Breakups

A.J. Mahari

  • The Invisible Borderline Man Why Women Don't See Him Coming

The Invisible Borderline Man Why Women Don't See Him Coming

Saturday 20th September 2025

Explore why women often miss signs of BPD in men. Gain clarity and courage with A.J. Mahari's insights on navigating these complex relationships.
12 minutes
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Surviving BPD Relationship Breakups
Author:
Counsellor A.J. Mahari
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Categories:
Healing Relationships
Navigating Intimate Relationships
Recovery from Trauma
Navigating Challenges in Recovery
Navigating Alcohol Dependency
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Unmasking the Invisible Borderline Man

Episode Overview

  • Recognise the subtle signs of BPD in men before emotional entanglement.
  • Cultural blind spots make it harder to identify BPD in men.
  • Misinterpreting jealousy and possessiveness as love can be dangerous.
  • Clarity is key to breaking free from trauma bonds.
  • Empower yourself with knowledge to protect against unhealthy relationships.
"The intensity isn't the same as emotional stability; it's often the borderline man's way of attaching quickly to ward off the terror of abandonment."
Curious about how others navigate their sobriety journey? This episode of "Surviving BPD Relationship Breakups" takes you on a deep dive into the complexities of recognising the 'Invisible Borderline Man.' Hosted by A.J. Mahari, a seasoned counsellor and trauma recovery coach, the discussion uncovers why women often miss the signs of Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) in men until it's too late.
Mahari sheds light on how cultural expectations and codependent conditioning can blind women to the subtle cues that reveal a partner's BPD traits. With a compassionate yet straightforward approach, Mahari explores the cultural blind spots that prevent society from acknowledging BPD in men. She delves into how charm and intensity can mask deeper issues, leading to emotional entanglement before the darker realities surface.
The episode also addresses the red flags often overlooked, such as jealousy and possessiveness being misinterpreted as love and care. Mahari's insights aim to empower listeners to break free from the trauma bonds that keep them trapped in unhealthy relationships. By understanding the invisible patterns of BPD in men, women can arm themselves with clarity and take the first steps towards healing and self-protection.
This episode is a must-listen for anyone seeking to understand the intricacies of BPD in men and the impact it has on relationships. Mahari's blend of professional expertise and heartfelt empathy offers valuable lessons for those affected by these complex dynamics. Are you ready to see through the illusion and find real, mutual love? Tune in to gain clarity and courage.
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