Counsellor A.J. Mahari
A.J. Mahari
Borderline Man Unmasked
Borderline Man Unmasked
Borderline Man Unmasked
Monday 15th September 2025
Explore seven realities about men with BPD and gain insights on navigating complex relationships with A.J. Mahari.
16 minutes
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Eye-opening
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Author:
Counsellor A.J. Mahari
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Healing Relationships
Navigating Intimate Relationships
Recovery from Trauma
Navigating Challenges in Recovery
Navigating Alcohol Dependency
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Episode Overview
- Men with BPD often express emotional storms through rage and aggression.
- Fragile masculinity leads to overcompensation and control issues.
- Addictions serve as escape routes from inner turmoil.
- Misdiagnosis often occurs, leading to untreated BPD.
- Recognising patterns can help break free from toxic relationships.
"Clarity is the first step to healing."
Ever wondered what it takes to truly understand the complexities of Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) in men? In this episode, A.J. Mahari, a seasoned trauma recovery coach, uncovers the hidden dynamics of the 'Borderline Man' and sheds light on how his behaviour can differ significantly from women with BPD. Mahari explores seven key realities about men with BPD, ranging from emotional volatility and fragile masculinity to addictions and relationship chaos.
These insights aim to provide clarity and help women who have been entangled in relationships with borderline men. The episode reveals how men with BPD often externalise their pain through rage and impulsivity, posing unique challenges for their partners. Mahari addresses the heartbreaking cycle of idealisation and devaluation that leaves loved ones walking on eggshells. She emphasises that understanding these behaviours is crucial for healing, rather than self-blame.
Through candid discussion, Mahari aims to empower listeners with knowledge and perspective, encouraging them to break free from toxic cycles. Mahari also tackles the issue of misdiagnosis and the dangerous potential for domestic violence, urging women to recognise these patterns and seek safety. With compassionate advice, she highlights the importance of recognising one's own truth amidst the chaos. If you've been affected by a relationship with a borderline man, this episode provides valuable insights and reassurance that you're not alone.
What drives someone to stay in such turbulent relationships? Could understanding these dynamics lead to healing and growth? Tune in to find out how you can take steps towards a healthier future.