Counsellor A.J. Mahari
A.J. Mahari
The Broken BPD Man Fantasy
The Broken BPD Man Fantasy
The Broken BPD Man Fantasy
Monday 15th September 2025
Explore the 'Broken BPD Man Fantasy' with A.J. Mahari as she uncovers why women fall into these relationships and how to reclaim their own stories.
12 minutes
Inspiring
Informative
Supportive
Eye-opening
Honest
About this podcast
Author:
Counsellor A.J. Mahari
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Categories:
Healing Relationships
Navigating Intimate Relationships
Recovery from Trauma
Navigating Challenges in Recovery
Navigating Alcohol Dependency
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Episode Overview
- The 'Broken BPD Man Fantasy' traps women in unhealthy relationships.
- Cultural conditioning often leads women to try to 'fix' broken partners.
- Staying in these relationships can erode self-identity and safety.
- Real love should empower individuals to be their true selves.
- Breaking free requires recognising the fantasy and reclaiming personal narratives.
"Real love doesn't demand you rescue someone else. Real love frees you to be yourself."
What makes a recovery story truly inspiring? In this episode, A.J. Mahari, a seasoned counsellor and trauma recovery coach, tackles the intricate dynamics of relationships with men who have Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD). Dubbed 'The Broken BPD Man Fantasy,' this episode is the first in a compelling three-part series that sheds light on the misconceptions women often hold about their relationships with BPD men.
Mahari explores why many women find themselves drawn into these emotionally taxing relationships, only to realise that their love alone cannot heal a partner's deep-seated issues. Through her empathetic lens, Mahari addresses the cultural and personal conditioning that leads women to believe they can 'fix' a broken man. She candidly discusses the emotional toll of staying in such relationships, highlighting how they can lead to a loss of self, safety, and clarity about what real love entails.
The episode delves into the fantasy that these women often cling to, thinking their patience and sacrifice can transform their partner. Listeners will find Mahari's insights both eye-opening and supportive, as she encourages them to break free from the cycle of trauma bonding and reclaim their own narratives. Her message is clear: real love does not require self-sacrifice or enduring pain. Instead, it should empower individuals to be their true selves without fear or control.
As Mahari sets the stage for the next instalments in the series, she offers hope and practical advice for those seeking to understand and heal from these complex relationship dynamics. Whether you're currently in such a relationship or reflecting on past experiences, this episode provides valuable perspectives that can guide you towards healthier connections.