Encouragementology
Kendell Boysen
From Surface Chat to Soul Talk: How to Have Conversations That Matter
From Surface Chat to Soul Talk: How to Have Conversations That Matter
From Surface Chat to Soul Talk: How to Have Conversations That Matter
Thursday 29th January 2026
Transform casual chats into meaningful conversations with Kendell Boysen's insights on deeper connections in a world of constant chatter.
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Episode Overview
- Transform casual chats into meaningful dialogues by shifting from surface chat to soul talk.
- Practice presence over pace to foster deeper connections.
- Use illuminating questions to invite reflection rather than extract information.
- Resist the urge to fix; instead, honour the connection by being present.
- Create space for real conversations by allowing pauses and avoiding rushing.
"Depth doesn't come from being interesting. It comes from being interested."
Ever wondered what it takes to turn a casual chat into a meaningful conversation? In this episode of Encouragementology, professional life and recovery coach Kendell Boysen shares her wisdom on transforming surface-level interactions into soul-stirring dialogues. She explores why many of us crave deeper connections in a world where talking is constant but genuine listening is rare. Have you ever felt empty after a conversation that seemed fine on the surface?
Kendell dives into the subtle ache we feel when conversations skim the surface for too long. Through light-hearted anecdotes and thoughtful advice, Kendell illustrates how 'soul talk' can be achieved without forcing depth or crossing boundaries. She introduces the concept of 'illuminating questions'—questions that invite reflection rather than extract information. Kendell also highlights the impact of distractions, like phones, on our ability to connect deeply, drawing insights from psychologist Sherry Turkle and author David Brooks.
The episode encourages listeners to practice presence over pace, offering practical tips for fostering deeper connections. Kendell suggests small shifts in how we open conversations, listen, and respond, emphasising curiosity without an agenda. By leaving space for the unsaid and resisting the urge to fix, we can create room for real connection to flourish. This isn't about fixing communication; it's about honouring connection and being present in the moment.
So, are you ready to leave the chair open for something real to emerge?