Why Moderation Might Be Your Biggest Mistake
Episode Overview
Moderation can often mask deeper emotional pain. Relapse may be driven by hidden triggers rather than the desire for alcohol. Internal Family Systems therapy helps identify emotional 'firefighters' and 'exiles'. Seeking support from community is crucial in maintaining sobriety. Understanding personal triggers can prevent falling back into drinking habits.
Moderation isn't control - it's the first crack in the dam.
Lee Davy's '1000 Days Sober Podcast' brings a raw and honest look at the myth of moderation. In this episode, Lee dives into his personal story of relapse after three years of sobriety. It's a tale that starts in the glitzy streets of Vegas and ends on a train to London, filled with shame and regret. But more than just a cautionary tale, Lee explores the deeper emotional currents that drive people to drink again.
Using Internal Family Systems therapy as a lens, he explains how 'firefighters' and 'exiles' can lead to relapse, revealing the hidden pain that often lurks beneath the surface. Lee's story isn't just about alcohol; it's about understanding yourself and the triggers that lead to destructive habits. If you've ever thought about moderating your drinking, this episode is a wake-up call to examine what's truly hurting inside.
Lee's heartfelt narrative is both relatable and eye-opening, offering insights into why moderation might be tempting but ultimately unhelpful. The episode encourages listeners to seek support and community, emphasising that fighting these battles alone is never the answer. With a blend of humour and empathy, Lee's storytelling makes for an engaging listen, prompting reflection on one's own journey with alcohol. So, if you're pondering moderation or know someone who is, this episode is a must-listen.
It might just change the way you think about your relationship with alcohol.