Cynthia Bailey-Rug
Cynthia Bailey-Rug
Scapegoats In The Narcissistic Family
Scapegoats In The Narcissistic Family
Scapegoats In The Narcissistic Family
Thursday 23rd July 2020
Cynthia Bailey-Rug discusses the scapegoat role in narcissistic families, offering advice on setting boundaries and finding inner strength.
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The good thing about a scapegoat is usually we are the first ones to recognize the dysfunction of the family and escape it. Scapegoats are usually the strongest member in their immediate family, which is why they were chosen for that role.
Picture this: growing up, you’re constantly blamed for everything that goes wrong. That’s the life of a scapegoat in a narcissistic family, and it’s the focus of this episode with Cynthia Bailey-Rug. Cynthia dives into the painful role of the scapegoat, explaining how these children are unfairly blamed and bullied, often accused of the very flaws their narcissistic parents possess. This cruel dynamic, known as projection, leaves lasting scars.
Cynthia doesn't just talk theory; she shares her own heart-wrenching experiences, like being isolated from her father's family throughout her childhood. The scapegoat’s achievements are ignored or belittled, and even basic needs like food and clothing are given grudgingly. Outside the family, lies are spread to protect the narcissistic parent's image, painting the child as the problem. This episode isn’t just about identifying the problem; it's about finding solutions.
Cynthia offers practical advice for setting boundaries, refusing to accept blame, and seeking strength through prayer. She encourages listeners to believe in themselves based on real evidence, not the lies fed by their dysfunctional families. Importantly, she highlights that scapegoats are often the strongest members of their families, capable of recognizing dysfunction and breaking free. Tune in to hear Cynthia’s insights and find out how to reclaim your self-worth after being a scapegoat.