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Andrea Ashley
SHITSHOW SATURDAY #178 - The Pain of Not Belonging
SHITSHOW SATURDAY #178 - The Pain of Not Belonging
SHITSHOW SATURDAY #178 - The Pain of Not Belonging
Saturday 15th November 2025
Explore the pain of not belonging and discover paths to healing in this raw and relatable episode.
Explicit
43 minutes
Inspiring
Honest
Raw
Healing
Authentic
About this podcast
Author:
Andrea
Overview:
Categories:
Healing Relationships
Healing from Sexual Trauma
Recovery from Trauma
Sobriety Toolkit
Understanding Addiction & Recovery
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Episode Overview
- Feeling like an outsider often stems from childhood experiences.
- Belonging should be unconditional, not something earned.
- Performing connection can lead to chronic imposter syndrome.
- True belonging starts with self-acceptance and authenticity.
- Healing involves letting go of over-functioning in relationships.
Belonging isn't supposed to be earned. It's supposed to be given.
What drives someone to seek a life without alcohol? This episode of Adult Child tackles the profound sense of not belonging that many experience growing up in dysfunctional families. Andrea Ashley, the host, shares raw stories and heartfelt reflections on how these feelings can persist into adulthood, affecting relationships and self-worth. Through candid discussions, listeners are invited to explore the complex emotions tied to codependency, generational trauma, and toxic shame.
You'll hear personal anecdotes about the struggle to fit in, perform connection, and the desperate need for belonging. The conversation is both honest and relatable, touching on the challenges of feeling like an outsider and the journey towards finding true belonging within oneself. With a mix of humour and vulnerability, Andrea and her guests offer insights into healing and self-acceptance.
This episode is a powerful reminder that while belonging starts with oneself, it's also about being seen and accepted by others without performing or pretending. So, what would it feel like to truly belong? Tune in to discover how embracing one's full self can lead to genuine connections and a sense of peace.