Paul Gilmartin
Paul Gilmartin
Success-Obsessed Parents & The Scapegoat Child
Success-Obsessed Parents & The Scapegoat Child
Success-Obsessed Parents & The Scapegoat Child
Friday 10th November 2017
Mary M. discusses escaping family scapegoating, facing prejudice, and finding self-worth on 'Mental Illness Happy Hour'.
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Get the buttons here!Mary M.: Escaping Family Scapegoating and Finding Self-Worth
It's really one of the saddest things is that what should so easily be correctable, reconnectable, is so impossible if the one side is blind and doesn't think that there needs to be an adjustment, or can't be open to the idea that their point of view might not be the only reality right
Imagine growing up feeling like you're always the problem child, no matter what you do. That's Mary M.'s story. At 30, she left America for Europe, hoping to escape not just the cultural pressures but also a family dynamic that painted her as the scapegoat to her 'golden-child' brother.
In this episode of 'Mental Illness Happy Hour', Mary opens up to host Paul Gilmartin about the emotional toll of being in a success-obsessed family that offered financial support but lacked emotional understanding. As a queer woman of color, she also shares the prejudice she's faced and the lessons learned from her relationship with a trans man.
The conversation touches on deep issues like the subtle politics of skin color within the black community and how excessive political correctness can stifle genuine communication. Mary also discusses living with Nonverbal Learning Disorder (NVLD) and Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD), providing a raw look into her mental health journey. This episode isn't just about Mary's struggles; it's about her resilience and growth. She highlights the importance of self-care, therapy, and finding one's own path despite familial and societal pressures.
If you've ever felt misunderstood or sidelined by those who are supposed to love you, Mary's story will resonate deeply. Tune in for a heartfelt discussion that sheds light on the complexities of family dynamics, personal growth, and the journey to self-worth.