Unpacking Childhood Messages with Thomas Gagliano
Episode Overview
Recognise how childhood messages influence adult behaviours. Challenge negative self-talk and embrace healing. Community support is vital in the recovery journey. Trusting others can lead to transformative change. Self-love and validation are crucial for personal growth.
"A child that doesn't feel like they matter to their parents won't stop loving their parents; they'll stop loving themselves."
How do people find strength in their journey to sobriety? On this episode of Recovery Recharged, Ellen Stewart, known as the Pushy Broad from the Bronx, welcomes Thomas Gagliano, a family dynamics expert and best-selling author. With his candid and relatable storytelling, Tom dives into the powerful impact childhood messages have on our lives and how they shape the roles we play.
From being a caretaker in a dysfunctional family to overcoming addiction, Tom's journey is a testament to resilience and transformation. He shares personal stories that highlight the importance of recognising these early messages and how they influence adult relationships and self-worth. Tom's anecdotes are both heart-wrenching and hopeful, such as his transformative moment with his father that pushed him deeper into recovery.
He discusses the concept of the 'warden', an inner critic that can sabotage one's life, and emphasises the need for self-love and validation. Tom's insights offer a roadmap for listeners dealing with similar struggles, encouraging them to challenge negative self-talk and embrace healing. Ellen and Tom also touch on the importance of community in recovery, the significance of taking direction from trusted individuals, and the role of a higher power in overcoming addiction.
This episode is packed with nuggets of wisdom for anyone looking to better understand themselves and improve their relationships. So, what childhood messages are you carrying with you, and how are they shaping your life today?