Healing Through Accountability: Why the Past Matters
Episode Overview
Discussing past actions is crucial for genuine healing. Ignoring the past can invalidate a partner's feelings. Open conversations foster mutual understanding. Accountability strengthens relationships. Practical advice for couples navigating recovery.
'When you say 'Let's not talk about the past,' you're saying my feelings of shame are more important than everything I put you through.'
Matt and Paige Robinson, hosts of the 'Till The Wheels Fall Off' podcast, bring a fresh perspective to the complex world of addiction recovery and relationships. In this episode titled 'Why the Past is Important - Accountability & Healing', they tackle the often controversial topic of addressing past actions in the context of healing and accountability. They argue that phrases like 'Let's move forward' or 'The past is the past' can be harmful in relationships affected by addiction or betrayal.
Instead, they stress the importance of discussing past events to foster genuine healing and accountability. Matt and Paige share their personal experiences, making it clear that ignoring the past can invalidate a partner's feelings and hinder emotional recovery. They highlight that real progress comes from open conversations, mutual understanding, and taking responsibility for one's actions. This episode is a must-listen for couples navigating recovery, offering practical advice and heartfelt reflections.
By the end, you'll realise the importance of acknowledging past mistakes to build a stronger, more honest relationship. So, if you're in recovery or supporting someone who is, this episode offers invaluable insights into how to move forward—together.