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Sex, God, & Chaos
In this episode, we explore the unintended harm caused by well-intentioned helpers from pastors to counselors to peers. We discuss stories of individuals seeking guidance from helpers only to receive harmful advice. We unpack the idea that these individuals, in fact, may not have received helpful support but instead, were traumatized by it. The episode also sheds light on how certain Bible passages or myths that exist in the Church can be taken out of context and cause more harm than good. Roane and Ben call this unhelpful intervention, "helper trauma." This episode is for anyone seeking guidance, as well as those who wish to better understand the potential harm caused by helpers who may not have the necessary knowledge or training. Join us as we uncover the broader range of problems that can arise when people seek help and instead receive harm.
54:39•26 May 2023
Helper Trauma: When Good Intentions Cause Harm
Episode Overview
- Explore the concept of 'helper trauma' and the unintended harm caused by well-intentioned helpers
- Discover the importance of finding trustworthy and equipped helpers
- Emphasise the need for helpers to engage with their own life and story
- Share practical advice, encouraging listeners to ask questions and seek help from those who demonstrate resilience, flexibility, and emotional health
“If we're caught up just sliding Bible verses across the table, we're not really getting to the work.”
Imagine seeking guidance and instead finding yourself more confused and hurt. In this episode of 'Sex, God, & Chaos', hosts Roane and Ben tackle the idea of 'helper trauma'. They dive into how well-meaning pastors, counselors, and friends can sometimes unintentionally cause harm. Through personal stories and reflections, Roane and Ben discuss the critical need for helpers to be trustworthy and self-aware. They emphasize the importance of finding guidance from those who are resilient, flexible, and emotionally healthy.
This episode offers practical advice on how to ask the right questions and seek help that genuinely supports your journey. It's a heartfelt conversation that sheds light on the complexities of seeking guidance and the necessity of engaging with your own life story.
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