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Sex, God, & Chaos
In this episode, Roane and Ben sit down for an honest update on Ben’s recent health challenges. Ben shares the journey from his 1997 cancer diagnosis to the long-term effects he’s facing today, including the discovery that most of his pancreas has shut down and the upcoming surgery to address it. They discuss how faith, community, and emotional awareness are shaping the way he navigates this season, and why honesty in the midst of hardship matters. It’s a candid conversation about fear, trust, control, and living with purpose when the future is uncertain.
44:48•7 Aug 2025
Facing Fear: Ben's Health Journey & Faith
Episode Overview
- Ben Derrick shares updates on his health challenges.
- Faith plays a crucial role in navigating uncertainty.
- Community support is essential during tough times.
- Embracing emotional awareness leads to personal growth.
- Honesty matters in the midst of hardship.
“I just started learning how to submit to God instead of controlling out of my sense of false self, and that has been an advantage.”
In this heartfelt episode of the Sex, God, & Chaos podcast, hosts Ben Derrick and Roane Hunter delve into the complexities of Ben's health journey. Ben candidly shares his experiences, from his cancer diagnosis in 1997 to the present-day challenges he faces as a result of the long-term effects. The discussion reveals Ben's recent discovery that most of his pancreas has shut down, necessitating surgery.
Throughout the episode, Ben emphasizes the importance of faith and community support in navigating life's uncertainties. His relationship with God, his family, and his community forms the foundation of his resilience. Ben's faith has taught him to submit to God rather than trying to control his circumstances, a lesson that has been invaluable during this challenging period. Roane and Ben also explore the role of emotional awareness in personal growth.
Ben reflects on how confronting his fears and trusting in a higher purpose has shaped his approach to life. This journey is not only about surviving but thriving by embracing honesty and vulnerability. The conversation touches on the impact Ben has had on others, especially in his work with men across the country, including those in the Special Forces and National Guard. His dedication to advancing the Kingdom of God and influencing men's lives is evident.
As the episode concludes, Ben and Roane express gratitude for the support they've received and encourage listeners to give where they see God moving. This episode serves as a testament to the power of faith, community, and living with purpose when the future is uncertain.

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