141: Natural Healing Show with Catherine Carrigan - Episode 141141: Natural Healing Show with Catherine Carrigan - Episode 141
UK Health Radio Podcast
Catherine Carrigan and Beverly Ingle discuss how repetition compulsion affects relationships, offering insights into healing past traumas and breaking unhealthy cycles.
46:28•21 Sept 2025
Breaking Free from Repetition: Healing Past Traumas
Episode Overview
- Understand how repetition compulsion can affect your relationships.
- Identify and process past traumas to break unhealthy patterns.
- Utilise journaling as a tool for healing and self-discovery.
- Recognise the importance of self-compassion in overcoming shame.
- Explore adaptive versus maladaptive reenactments.
“"If you're repeating a pattern, please try to go back and find the trauma that you're reenacting. It's going to free you for the rest of your life."”
What drives us to repeat patterns in our relationships, especially those that hurt us? In this compelling episode of the UK Health Radio Podcast's Natural Healing Show, host Catherine Carrigan welcomes Beverly Ingle, a seasoned psychotherapist and author of 28 books, including her latest, 'Put Your Past in the Past.' Together, they unpack the concept of 'repetition compulsion,' where individuals unconsciously recreate past traumas in their current relationships, hoping for a different outcome.
Beverly shares insights into why people are drawn to partners who mirror unresolved childhood issues, offering a deep dive into the psychological mechanisms at play. Through engaging dialogue, Beverly explains how traumatic reenactments are not merely about revisiting pain but are attempts to heal and understand one's past. The discussion touches on the importance of acknowledging and processing trauma to break free from destructive cycles.
Beverly also highlights the role of self-compassion and journaling as powerful tools in healing shame and fostering personal growth. The episode doesn't shy away from difficult topics like abuse and its long-lasting effects, providing listeners with practical advice on how to address these challenges head-on. Beverly’s candid approach and Catherine’s intuitive insights create a safe space for exploring these complex issues. Are you stuck in a cycle of unhealthy relationships?
Tune in to learn how to break free and embrace your authentic self. Could it be time to put your past in the past?

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