#19 - Cognitive Restructuring: People pleasing#19 - Cognitive Restructuring: People pleasing
Care In Counseling Podcast
Rev. Robert Wilson shares how to break free from people-pleasing by finding security in God and focusing on His unchanging support.
13:28•30 Jun 2020
Escaping the People-Pleasing Trap: Wisdom from Rev. Robert Wilson
“When we focus on God, what God gives us, it lasts. We're not moody. Our moods are not up and down because God is a constant.”
Do you ever find yourself bending over backwards to keep others happy, only to end up feeling drained and unappreciated? In this episode of the Care in Counseling Podcast, Rev. Robert Wilson tackles the exhausting habit of people-pleasing. Drawing on biblical stories like those of Saul and Peter, he illustrates how seeking validation from others can lead to a never-ending cycle of frustration and disappointment.
Instead of chasing the ever-changing opinions of people, Wilson suggests anchoring your sense of security in something unchanging: God. By focusing on God's unwavering support, you can break free from the chains of false guilt and condemnation. Wilson also delves into the importance of taking control of your thoughts and prioritizing God's perspective over others'. This shift not only helps in resisting mood disorders like anxiety and depression but also promotes a healthier, more balanced life.
If you're tired of living for others and ready to find true security, this episode offers practical advice and spiritual insights to help you reclaim your peace of mind.
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