TWFO Couple - Matt & Paige Robinson

Till The Wheels Fall Off

TWFO Couple - Matt & Paige Robinson

  • #231 - Paige's Perspective: Why the “Codependent” Label Gets It Wrong

#231 - Paige's Perspective: Why the “Codependent” Label Gets It Wrong

Friday 22nd August 2025

Paige Robinson explores betrayal trauma, challenging the 'codependent' label and offering insights into healing and rebuilding trust.
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17 minutes
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Till The Wheels Fall Off
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TWFO Couple - Matt & Paige Robinson
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Betrayal Trauma: Beyond the Codependent Label

Episode Overview

  • Betrayal trauma extends beyond infidelity.
  • The 'codependent' label can be harmful.
  • Survival instincts are natural reactions to betrayal.
  • Healing requires processing trauma and rebuilding trust.
  • Accountability should focus on the betrayer's actions.
"Betrayal is anything that shatters safety, trust, and intimacy"
In this episode of 'Till The Wheels Fall Off', Paige Robinson tackles the often misunderstood concept of betrayal trauma, challenging the notion that those affected are simply 'codependent'. Paige brings to light the many faces of betrayal, from financial deception to emotional manipulation, and explains why slapping a 'codependent' label on those suffering from betrayal trauma is not only inaccurate but also damaging.
With anecdotes from her own experiences, Paige sheds light on how betrayal shatters trust and safety, leaving deep emotional scars. She argues that these reactions are normal responses to being hurt and should not be mislabelled as flaws. By sharing examples such as financial betrayal and chronic dishonesty, Paige illustrates how these betrayals affect one's mental and emotional health, often leading to hypervigilance and self-doubt.
She emphasises the importance of processing trauma and rebuilding trust, rather than focusing on fixing supposed flaws in the betrayed partner. Paige's candid discussion is both relatable and enlightening, offering a fresh perspective on how to approach healing from betrayal trauma. If you're looking for a podcast that challenges traditional labels and offers genuine support, this episode is worth your time.
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