TWFO Couple - Matt & Paige Robinson
TWFO Couple - Matt & Paige Robinson
#233 - Should I Stay or Should I Go? How to Finally Know for Yourself
#233 - Should I Stay or Should I Go? How to Finally Know for Yourself
#233 - Should I Stay or Should I Go? How to Finally Know for Yourself
Wednesday 27th August 2025
Matt and Paige Robinson explore the complex question of staying or leaving a relationship with an addict.
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TWFO Couple - Matt & Paige Robinson
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Episode Overview
- Trust is earned slowly; accountability tools like Soberlink can help.
- Expectations can lead to resentment; adjust them to protect yourself.
- Boundaries are crucial; define what you'll tolerate.
- Build a parallel life to regain independence.
- Leaving might not be an option for everyone; survival strategies exist.
Trust is lost in buckets and earned in droplets.
Ever found yourself stuck between staying or leaving a relationship with an addict? Matt and Paige Robinson tackle this weighty question in their latest episode, providing a candid look into the struggles faced by spouses of addicts. With over two decades of experience in addiction recovery, Matt shares his personal journey and the dilemmas that come with such relationships.
The episode doesn't offer a one-size-fits-all solution but dives into the complexities of deciding whether to stay or go, especially when abuse is involved. Listeners are taken through the emotional rollercoaster of trust, accountability, and the harsh realities of living with an addict. Matt discusses the importance of rebuilding trust, often lost in buckets and earned in droplets, and introduces Soberlink—a tool designed to help regain trust through accountability.
The episode also explores why people tolerate so much in relationships, touching on biological wiring for connection and survival instincts. If you're pondering your next move, this episode provides insights into how to manage expectations and build a parallel life, even if you can't leave immediately. Matt's storytelling is raw and honest, offering practical advice for those who find themselves in this challenging situation.
From boundaries to self-care, the episode is packed with actionable steps to reclaim your life and sanity. Whether you're choosing to stay or contemplating leaving, Matt encourages listeners to make decisions that align with their own mental and physical well-being. So, should you stay or should you go? That's a question only you can answer. But whatever path you choose, remember: your health and sanity matter most. How will you reclaim your peace?