Breaking Silence: Domestic Abuse Insights with Kate Beesley
Episode Overview
Intuition is a powerful tool for recognising unsafe situations. Awareness and education can prevent escalating behaviours. Shame should be placed on perpetrators, not victims. Men have a critical role in addressing violence against women. Open discussions about consent are essential.
"The shame must change sight from the victim survivor to the perpetrator."
What drives someone to break free from domestic abuse and find hope? Kate Beesley, a trauma specialist and survivor, is on a mission to educate the public about the signs and psychology of abuse. This episode of the Domestic Abuse Breakthrough Show brings Robert Kaiser into the conversation, a man dedicated to listening and working with female survivors of violence for over 30 years.
He shares insights from his extensive research and personal experiences, shedding light on the often overlooked factors that lead young men down dangerous paths. With anecdotes about societal pressures and familial influences, Robert emphasises the importance of understanding childhood trauma and its impact on future behaviours. You'll hear about the staggering statistics of violence against women and the responsibility men have in changing these narratives.
Robert's book, "Never a Victim," encapsulates years of research into the commonalities among perpetrators, challenging preconceived notions about childhood trauma. This episode doesn't shy away from tough topics, such as the societal expectations placed on women and the shame that often accompanies victimhood. Kate and Robert discuss how intuition and awareness are vital tools for safety and prevention. They advocate for open conversations about consent and the importance of educating children on healthy relationships.
The episode is packed with insights that aim to empower listeners to recognise signs of abuse and take proactive steps towards change. Are we doing enough to educate young people about respect and boundaries? This episode invites you to reflect on your role in fostering a safer society.