Healing from Clergy Betrayal: Sandy Kirkham's Journey
I'm hoping that it will shed light on clergy abuse and what it is, and it's not just a moral fall. But the other side is the moral side of it.
Imagine seeking solace in a place meant to be a sanctuary, only to find betrayal instead. In this heartfelt episode of 'Starting Over Stronger', host Annie Allen welcomes Sandy Kirkham, a courageous survivor of clergy abuse. Sandy opens up about the harrowing experience of being betrayed by a trusted church leader during her teenage years, turning what should have been a safe haven into a source of deep trauma.
Yet, Sandy's story is not just one of pain; it's also one of incredible resilience and the quest for healing. She discusses the emotional and spiritual toll of such betrayal and the long road to forgiveness. Sandy's mission is clear: to help others speak up and reclaim their lives after such profound violations. Through candid conversation, she highlights the importance of emotional safety, setting boundaries, and recognizing the insidious nature of gaslighting.
Sandy also touches on the therapeutic power of sharing one's story, offering a beacon of hope for those who might feel isolated in their pain. This episode is a must-listen for anyone grappling with betrayal, seeking understanding, or looking for inspiration on the path to recovery.