A Long Period Of Reconstruction (The Daily Trudge)A Long Period Of Reconstruction (The Daily Trudge)
RAW Recovery Podcast
Dion reflects on the AA Big Book’s idea of a “long period of reconstruction,” stressing living amends, honest boundaries, and spiritual growth as lifelong work. Through stories, humour, and direct commentary, he connects the text to everyday recovery and rebuilding relationships.
32:19•5 May 2026
A Long Period of Reconstruction: Living Amends and Lifelong Change
Episode Overview
- Stopping drinking is only the start; rebuilding relationships, habits, and character is a long-term process.
- Living amends means ongoing changed behaviour, not just saying sorry once and moving on.
- Sobriety includes setting firm boundaries and refusing to accept disrespect or misuse, even “for a good cause.”
- Family may not want heavy spiritual talk; consistent behaviour often speaks louder than words.
- The AA promises show up differently for everyone, but they depend on steady work and willingness over time.
“The living amends is really the only amends. Changed behaviour is the only amends.”
What drives someone to seek a life without alcohol? RAW Recovery’s Daily Trudge segment, hosted by Dion, leans straight into that question with blunt honesty, Big Book passages, and plenty of lived experience. This talk centres on the idea of a “long period of reconstruction” – the bit that comes after putting the drink down, when the real work starts.
Dion reads from the Alcoholics Anonymous Big Book and breaks it down in everyday language, swapping out old-fashioned wording and adding his own commentary. You’ll hear him stress that saying sorry isn’t enough: “The living amends is really the only amends. Changed behaviour is the only amends.” He ties the text to real life – from doing the dishes and picking up dog poo as part of living amends, to owning up to past harm with family.
There’s a raw story about someone misusing his “Trudging Together RAW Recovery” name, and how setting boundaries and refusing to be walked over is now part of his sober life. It’s messy, human, and sometimes funny: he jokes about “talking juice”, misfired “Trudging Tuesdays”, and people treating Cinco de Mayo like a drinking festival. The tone is direct, sweary at times, but grounded in responsibility and spiritual growth.
Dion talks about jealousy, denial, and those AA promises, pointing out that they show up at different times for different people. He’s clear that recovery takes persistence: “There is a long period of reconstruction ahead – for a lifetime we must take the lead.” If you’re somewhere between early sobriety and long-term recovery and wondering why life still feels hard, this honest breakdown of rebuilding relationships, character, and daily habits might be exactly what you need.
How might your own “living amends” look if you treated change as a lifelong project rather than a quick fix?

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