Addiction: Naming The Problem & Taking The First Step (Episode 2)Addiction: Naming The Problem & Taking The First Step (Episode 2)
Relational Recovery
Wes Thompson and Austin Bill explore the illusions of self-comparison and denial in addiction, emphasising honesty as a key step in recovery.
6:28•3 Feb 2026
Facing Illusions: The First Step in Addiction Recovery
Episode Overview
- Honesty is the crucial first step in recovery.
- Illusions and self-comparison can hinder progress.
- Denial has a dual nature: denying addiction and recovery.
- Admitting powerlessness is key to transformation.
- Personal stories highlight the raw reality of addiction.
“"Transformation doesn't begin with effort; it begins with honesty."”
How do individuals cope with the challenges of staying sober? In this engaging episode of 'Relational Recovery', hosts Wes Thompson and Austin Bill tackle the often-unspoken illusion of self-comparison in addiction. They delve into the psychological tricks our minds play, making us feel better by comparing ourselves to others rather than addressing our own issues. The duo emphasises the importance of honesty as the first step in the 12-step recovery model, highlighting how admitting powerlessness is crucial for transformation.
The episode sheds light on the dual nature of denial—first denying the addiction, then denying the possibility of recovery. Personal anecdotes are shared, including a poignant story of mistaking withdrawal symptoms for the flu, which captures the raw reality of addiction. With a blend of Christian spirituality and psychology, this episode offers hope and practical advice for those struggling with unwanted behaviours.
You'll find yourself nodding along as they discuss how illusions and self-deception keep people trapped in cycles of addiction. Ready to face your own illusions and take that critical first step? Tune in for an honest discussion that might just inspire your journey to recovery.

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