The Refuge Ministry
The Refuge Ministry
Anger, Loneliness & Sex (Entire Episode)
Anger, Loneliness & Sex (Entire Episode)
Anger, Loneliness & Sex (Entire Episode)
Monday 7th November 2022
Discover how anger, loneliness, and sex impact unwanted behaviors with Wes Thompson and Austin Hill on 'Relational Recovery'.
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Get the buttons here!Understanding Anger, Loneliness, and Sex: Unpacking Unwanted Behaviors
What sucks- and this is how evil is so insidious- is I feel unwanted, I act out, and then that acting out makes me feel unwanted, and then I act out and it makes me feel unwanted, I feel unwanted, so I act out.
Ever feel like your emotions are running the show? In this episode of 'Relational Recovery', hosts Wes Thompson and Austin Hill tackle the powerful trio of anger, loneliness, and sex, exploring how these factors shape our unwanted behaviors. They start by acknowledging that everyone experiences intense anger and that sex plays a significant role in our relationships. However, they emphasize that misplaced desires can lead to shame and that sex doesn’t always equate to true intimacy.
The episode delves into the idea that all unwanted behaviors have a relational root. Wes and Austin encourage listeners to approach themselves with compassion and curiosity rather than judgment. They suggest that understanding the connection between anger and unmet needs can be a game-changer. By identifying the root relational issues, we can start to break the cycle of unwanted behaviors. The hosts also discuss how acting out can make us feel unwanted, perpetuating a negative cycle.
Instead of brushing these feelings aside, they recommend facing them head-on with kindness. They pose thought-provoking questions like whether our behaviors lead us to joy or devastation. The episode also highlights that healthy relationships foster healthy sexuality, urging us to be mindful of our desires and recognize when they are misappropriated. Wes and Austin advocate for collective problem-solving, either alone or with others, to gain new perspectives and solutions.
Throughout the discussion, they stress the importance of compassion, curiosity, and openness to change. They remind us that unwanted behaviors don’t define us and that recovery is always within reach. They also underscore the belief that we are made by God and that His love can guide us towards a flourishing life. This episode is a must-listen for anyone grappling with unwanted behaviors, offering a compassionate lens through which to view our struggles and a hopeful path towards recovery.