And being comfortable with yourself and not doubting the decisions, uh, that you make, if you try to make the right one, uh, with a clear head, um, you know, sometimes you may not, uh, get the outcome that you expected or wanted, but if it's coming from a genuine place, uh, you know, things you know tend to have a way of working themselves out, you know, and, uh, you know, just saying again: uh, uh, just getting out of the driver's seat, man, I can't say it enough, and letting, letting uh, a higher power, or whatever that be, for people out there.