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Coddling, Belittling, Resilience (Full Episode - Archive)
Coddling, Belittling, Resilience (Full Episode - Archive)
Coddling, Belittling, Resilience (Full Episode - Archive)
Wednesday 3rd July 2024
Hosts Wes Thompson and Austin Hill discuss how to cultivate resilience by balancing compassion and truth, avoiding extremes like coddling and belittling.
41 minutes
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Episode Overview
- Resilience is about doing hard things well.
- Extreme reactions like coddling or belittling can hinder growth.
- Balancing compassion and truth is key to fostering resilience.
- Support others by being present without fixing their problems.
- Building resilience involves getting back up after falling.
Do not judge me by my success. Judge me by how many times I fell down and got back up again.
In this episode of the Relational Recovery podcast, hosts Wes Thompson and Austin Hill dive into the delicate balance between coddling and belittling, and how to cultivate resilience in the face of life's challenges. Drawing from personal experiences and biblical references, they explore the importance of doing hard things well. Wes shares an anecdote about a conversation with his coach, highlighting the ultimate goal of raising resilient children.
The hosts also discuss the pitfalls of extreme reactions—whether it’s overprotecting or harshly criticising—and how these can hinder genuine growth and connection. They advocate for a middle ground where compassion and truth coexist, helping others build their resilience without taking away their struggles. Wes and Austin use humour and real-life examples to keep the conversation engaging, making it clear that resilience is not about being perfect but about getting back up after falling.
By the end of the episode, you'll have practical tips on how to support others without coddling or belittling them, making it a must-listen for anyone interested in fostering stronger, more resilient relationships.