DEX On: Barstool, Stanton & Bowery, And The Power of Reinventing Yourself: THE LOFT EPISODE 135DEX On: Barstool, Stanton & Bowery, And The Power of Reinventing Yourself: THE LOFT EPISODE 135
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Dex shares how he moved from Milwaukee to Nashville, grew into Director of Entertainment for Stanton & Bowery, and built The Platform while juggling self-doubt and big ambitions. The conversation focuses on relationships, reinvention, and the importance of surrounding yourself with the right people.
59:42•8 May 2026
Dex, Barstool & Starting Over: How a DJ Rebuilt His Life in Nashville
Episode Overview
- Being ready for unexpected opportunities can change your entire career trajectory.
- Strong relationships with staff and managers often matter more than technical perfection behind the decks.
- Moving away from a limiting environment can open doors you never knew existed.
- Surrounding yourself with motivated, growth-minded people is crucial if you feel stuck.
- It’s easy to be hard on yourself; taking time to reflect on how far you’ve come really matters.
“Have the right people around you. If you feel stuck or you want to evolve, having the right people around you is the biggest thing.”
What makes a recovery story truly inspiring? For Dex, it starts with betting on himself, leaving the comfort of Milwaukee, and saying yes to a brand-new life in Nashville. This conversation on THE LOFT centres on reinvention, hustle, and the quiet doubts that creep in when you’re chasing a bigger vision.
Dex shares how he went from DJing four to five nights a week in small Milwaukee venues to becoming Director of Entertainment for the Stanton & Bowery hospitality group, booking talent across multiple Barstool and partner venues nationwide. His path wasn’t handed to him; it grew from one simple rule: be ready when your name gets called.
You’ll hear how a last-minute headline slot at Barstool Nashville turned into a residency, and how his Covid-era mix show, **The Platform**, created a global DJ network and new opportunities for others. He talks about why relationships often matter more than pure technical skill: bartenders, managers, and staff remember how you made them feel, not just what you played. The chat isn’t all industry talk, though.
Dex opens up about family estrangement, the support he gets from his dad and stepmum, and how that pushed him to become more independent.
He admits he struggles to pause and enjoy his own progress, even while helping friends level up, saying, “I’m so hard on myself where it’s hard to think that this is good.” For anyone feeling stuck or boxed in by their current life, his advice is blunt and clear: “Have the right people around you.” If your circle is stagnant, your growth probably is too.
Expect stories about late-night sets, moving city for love and opportunity, and the constant tug-of-war between ambition and actually taking a breather. If you’re thinking about reinventing yourself, this chat might have you asking: what leap of faith are you putting off?

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