Dispelling the Myth of CodependenceDispelling the Myth of Codependence
Scope of Practice
Author, clinician, and educator Dr. Rob Weiss joins the show to talk about the problems associated with the field's long-held view of blaming the family, friends, and loved ones of those with substance use disorders for "enabling" their use while enc...
47:38•7 Jun 2022
Rethinking Codependency: Dr. Rob Weiss on Supporting Families in Addiction Recovery
“I have no idea how they got to my door in the middle of the night in the pouring rain, and I would go to my support groups, which were infused with codependency in The 90s, and they said: well, you just need to detach, you just need to let that. It's six feet below bottom and nobody wants that to happen to a loved one.”
Ever felt blamed for trying to help a loved one with a substance use disorder? Dr. Rob Weiss is here to turn that idea on its head. In this episode of 'Scope of Practice', he takes a critical look at the long-standing codependency model and suggests a more compassionate alternative. Dr. Weiss argues that the notion of codependency, which often places undue blame on families and friends for 'enabling' addictive behaviors, lacks a solid medical foundation.
Instead, he champions the crisis model, which offers practical support and hope to both addicts and their loved ones. The codependency model has been around for decades, but Dr. Weiss points out its limitations and flaws. He believes it's more of a pop culture phenomenon that doesn't hold up under scrutiny. Without a clear definition, it's tough to treat effectively. Dr. Weiss suggests shifting the focus from what's 'wrong' with family members to what strengths they bring to the table.
He introduces the idea of pro-dependence, which emphasizes supporting the addict's recovery journey by leveraging the inherent strengths within their support network. This episode is a must-listen for anyone affected by addiction, whether you're in recovery yourself or supporting someone who is. Dr. Weiss's insights offer a refreshing perspective that could change how you view addiction recovery. Tune in to hear why the crisis model might be the better path forward.

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