Melissa Febos: From the Dungeons of NYC to a Life of Recovery on Dopey Podcast
You know, looking back, I'm like god. I was really running a lot of risks there. But it's also a way of getting out of myself.
Ever wondered what it's like to transition from the dark world of BDSM to a life of sobriety? This episode of the Dopey Podcast has Dave sitting down with Melissa Febos, a critically acclaimed author and former dominatrix, who opens up about her extraordinary journey. Melissa's tale is as multifaceted as it gets—she's navigated the treacherous waters of heroin and speedball addiction while working in the dungeons of New York City, administering both pain and pleasure to her clients.
Her story doesn't just stop at the shock factor; it delves deep into the loneliness of living in a single room occupancy (SRO) in Chelsea, where she felt like she was trapped in a bygone era of junkies from the '70s and '80s. But Melissa didn't let her story end there. She takes listeners through her struggles and triumphs in recovery, highlighting the importance of community and connection.
Exercise, especially running, has been a cornerstone in her journey to sobriety, helping her find peace and focus. This episode isn't just about Melissa's past; it's also a cautionary tale about the dangers of fentanyl and carfentanyl, stressing the importance of being careful about who you invite into your life. With its blend of raw honesty and dark humor, this episode is both gripping and enlightening, offering a fresh perspective on addiction and recovery.