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Audio/Video – The Freedom Model For Addictions
Mark Sheeran and Michelle Dunbar argue that every addiction success story hinges on a true change of mind and preference, not lifelong recovery rituals. They challenge common beliefs about trauma, depression and disease models while showing how dropping guilt and shame can open the door to clear, self-directed choices about substance use.
38:07•24 Jul 2026
Every Addiction Success Story Has One Thing in Common
Episode Overview
- Lasting change from heavy substance use happens when a person genuinely changes their mind and preferences about using.
- Recovery systems and 12‑step approaches can create a confusing maze of rituals that distract from a simple choice: keep using or stop.
- Guilt and shame obscure clear thinking; admitting that you currently enjoy using is often necessary before you can question whether you still want it.
- Common beliefs that trauma, depression or a “broken brain” cause addiction are challenged, with emphasis on weak correlations and powerful learned narratives.
- Real‑world risks of illicit drugs, especially fentanyl, need to be factored into any decision about ongoing use, even while the ultimate choice remains personal.
“You can’t hate yourself into change.”
What drives someone to seek a life without alcohol or drugs? This episode of **The Freedom Model for Addictions** zooms in on one bold claim from Mark Sheeran and Michelle Dunbar: every lasting addiction success story boils down to one thing – a genuine change of mind.
Speaking as long-time researchers and co-authors of *The Freedom Model for Addictions*, Mark and Michelle argue that people don’t escape heavy substance use through willpower battles or endless meetings, but through changing what they *prefer*.
As Mark puts it, many people in "recovery" are trapped in a “labyrinth of recovery rituals, protocols and distractions” instead of asking the simple question: *do I still truly want this?* You’ll hear them challenge widely accepted ideas about addiction being caused by trauma, depression, or a “broken brain”. They stress that correlations are weak, and that constant messages like “depression causes addiction” can actually create a self-fulfilling identity.
Michelle points out how culture teaches that alcohol is a cure-all – a “toddy for the body” – and how that belief feeds the idea of self‑medicating emotions. The pair unpack how guilt and shame block people from honest self-assessment. Mark notes that you “can’t hate yourself into change”, and shows how admitting “I really like getting hammered” is often the uncomfortable but crucial starting point.
Only then can someone calmly ask, “Is this really how I want to spend my time?” They also discuss the dangers of black‑market drugs and urge people to factor in real‑world risks like fentanyl, while still insisting that the final choice always rests with the individual. For anyone tired of feeling broken, labelled, or stuck in endless recovery cycles, this candid conversation offers a straight-talking, myth-busting look at how people actually move on from heavy substance use.
Could changing your mind be simpler – and more powerful – than you’ve been told?
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