Episode 139: Steps 8 and 9Episode 139: Steps 8 and 9
Beyond Belief Sobriety
In this episode, Angela and John take a look at the amends steps, 8 and 9. John talks about his experience with direct and indirect amends, and explains why in some situations he felt that indirect or "living amends" were the better choice.
51:25•29 Dec 2019
Steps 8 and 9: Making Amends and Healing Relationships in Recovery
“Instead of playing the guilt game, we need to take full responsibility for what we've done, make our amends and let the whole thing go.”
Ever wondered how to truly make amends and heal relationships during recovery? In this episode of AA Beyond Belief, Angela and John tackle the often daunting Steps 8 and 9 of the AA program. These steps focus on taking responsibility for past actions and finding ways to make things right. John opens up about his personal journey with both direct and indirect amends, sharing why he sometimes opts for 'living amends'—actions that demonstrate change over time.
Angela brings insights from 'The Alternative 12 Steps: A Secular Guide to Recovery', providing a practical framework for these crucial steps. They both dive into the emotional hurdles of guilt and shame, offering guidance on how to navigate these feelings while building stronger, more honest relationships. This episode is packed with real-life experiences and practical advice, making it a must-listen for anyone serious about their recovery journey.
Tune in to learn how taking responsibility can lead to a more fulfilling and sober life.
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