I really think that like, we do rely on our kids when we're younger because we don't. And I have to say for my age group in years, I think this, I'll speak for myself just to be clear. So nobody sends me any heat mail over this, but, you know, I really believe that we didn't have the, we didn't really share who we were with other people, even our closest friends, even our siblings, even our moms, because we were like, you know what, you're going to judge me. This little person that's in this house that I gave birth to and is here and I feed every day and I clothe every day and is with me 24 hours a day until they go to school, which is only for eight hours a day, by the way, they're home for the rest of the time. And you're like talking to, you talk to them and you won't talk to yourself. I feel that I talk to myself more on because you spent so much time and you just talk, you're just talking and they listen and they're sponges. And you don't do it in 10. She's like, 'mom, my daughter's name's Hadley.' And she'd be like, 'mom, I'm not your therapist.'