Escaping Being Bamboozled, Hoodwinked, & Led AstrayEscaping Being Bamboozled, Hoodwinked, & Led Astray
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Dr. Bell discusses the experience of being manipulated and used by others, emphasizing the importance of discerning the spirit behind actions. She warns against trusting actions that are not based on a person's character or the Spirit of God. The gifts of...
55:07•5 Jul 2024
Escaping Spiritual Manipulation: Gifts, Gaslighting, and Getting Wise
Episode Overview
- Gifts from God are irrevocable, so impressive abilities do not automatically mean someone is aligned with God’s will.
- Character and lifestyle must match what a person preaches; gifts without integrity can mislead and harm others.
- Prophetic words should be weighed carefully and confirmed by God, rather than followed blindly.
- Spiritual experiences such as tongues or miracles need discernment, including checking for order, interpretation, and inner peace.
- Mental illness and narcissistic patterns can be present in churches, so believers are urged to stay grounded in scripture and God’s voice.
“If God does not confirm his word, you better not take that.”
What can we learn from those who have battled addiction? Here, the focus shifts to spiritual deception and how easily people can be spiritually used, controlled, or outright fooled by appearances. Dr. Theresa M Bell talks openly about being “bamboozled, hoodwinked, or led astray” by gifted, impressive church folk whose lives don’t line up with what they preach.
Drawing from Romans 11:29 and 1 Corinthians 12, she explains that “the gifts and the callings of God are without repentance,” meaning people can move in powerful gifts and still be far from God’s heart. You’ll hear her break down spiritual gifts such as wisdom, knowledge, healing, miracles, tongues, prophecy and discernment, and why character matters more than performance. Dr.
Bell shares real-life stories from church life—prophetic words that sent her off course, a famous preacher’s offering line that left her evicted three days later, and moments when she sensed dark, heavy spiritual atmospheres as soon as she walked into a room. She also talks about mental illness in church, including narcissistic leaders who misuse their influence and money, keeping people oppressed instead of free.
Throughout, Pastor Ronnie adds short comments on the daily need to renew the mind and the heavy load that loving pastors carry. The tone stays raw, funny at times, and very direct: “If God does not confirm his word, you better not take that.” This episode is especially helpful if you’ve ever been hurt by church leaders, confused by supernatural-looking experiences, or unsure whom to trust with your soul.
It encourages you to study scripture for yourself, lean on the Holy Spirit, and ask hard questions: is this really God, or just a gifted person using their gift for themselves?

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