Love and Sobriety: Dating in Your First Year of Recovery
I also believe that those are very tender times that we have to abstain from making any major decisions or getting involved in any new situations or relationships for fear of falling off the horse.
Picture this: you're fresh into your recovery journey, feeling vulnerable yet hopeful, and suddenly the idea of dating pops up. Lisa and Julie from '2 Sober Chicks' tackle this very scenario in their latest episode. They kick things off by addressing a common piece of advice given to those new to recovery: avoid major changes, including dating, in your first year. Sounds simple, right? But when your heart is yearning for connection, it’s anything but.
Lisa and Julie share their own dating escapades from early recovery, highlighting the rollercoaster of emotions and pitfalls that often accompany such relationships. They stress the importance of setting boundaries, being honest, and communicating openly—skills that are crucial not just in dating but in maintaining sobriety. The duo also delves into the role of sponsors, those guiding lights who help newcomers navigate these tricky waters. One major takeaway?
Waiting to date can actually fortify your sense of self and better prepare you for the ups and downs of a relationship. This episode is a must-listen for anyone grappling with the desire to date while staying committed to their recovery goals. Lisa and Julie's candid conversations offer a blend of humor, wisdom, and real-life insights that make you feel like you're chatting with old friends who genuinely get it.