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Forgiveness, Trust, and Moving Forward (Episode 3 - Archive)
Forgiveness, Trust, and Moving Forward (Episode 3 - Archive)
Forgiveness, Trust, and Moving Forward (Episode 3 - Archive)
Thursday 7th August 2025
Explore forgiveness and trust in recovery. Learn how to let go without losing sight of consequences.
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Episode Overview
- Forgiveness involves letting go of anger and resentment.
- Consequences remain even after forgiveness is granted.
- Rebuilding trust requires time and consistent effort.
- Different offences lead to different consequences.
- Forgiveness doesn't guarantee reconciliation.
"Forgiveness is costly, but it doesn't mean there aren't consequences attached to our behaviours."
In this episode of Relational Recovery, hosts Wes Thompson and Austin Hill tackle the nuanced topic of forgiveness and trust, essential elements in the journey of recovery. They dive into the distinction between forgiving someone and dealing with the consequences of their actions. Forgiveness, as Wes explains, is about letting go of anger and resentment. But hold on to your hats – it doesn't mean that consequences vanish into thin air!
You might forgive someone for borrowing your bike and never returning it, but you probably won't lend them another one anytime soon. The conversation shifts gears to explore how different offences have varying consequences. Wes shares that while forgiveness is a personal choice, rebuilding trust is a process that requires patience and effort. This episode is peppered with relatable anecdotes, like the difference between forgiving a spouse for a harsh word versus something more serious.
Austin offers a poignant reminder that forgiveness doesn’t automatically fix relationships; it's just one piece of the puzzle. The duo discusses how trust, once broken, needs to be rebuilt gradually, often across multiple aspects of a relationship. For those grappling with addiction or supporting someone who is, this episode provides valuable insights into how forgiveness can pave the way for healing, but also highlights the importance of understanding the consequences of one's actions.
So, if you're curious about how forgiveness can transform your relationships or want practical advice on moving forward after a breach of trust, this episode is well worth your time. You'll find wisdom in Wes and Austin's discussion that could help you navigate the complexities of human relationships with a bit more grace.