Nelson H.
Nelson H.
Friendship vs. fellowship
Friendship vs. fellowship
Friendship vs. fellowship
Friday 25th July 2025
Explore the balance between friendship and fellowship in sobriety with Nelson H.'s humorous take on recovery connections.
8 minutes
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Episode Overview
- Fellowship acts as a central pillar in recovery.
- Sober connections help avoid unwanted temptations.
- Friendship involves accountability and honesty.
- Recovery allies support each other without judgement.
- COVID highlighted the importance of fellowship.
For me, fellowship is the sun that everything else orbits around.
In this episode of LOL Sober, Nelson H. - under his pen name - explores the intriguing relationship between friendship and fellowship in recovery. If you're wondering whether fellowship is just a churchy term or something deeper, Nelson's journey might resonate with you. He candidly shares his initial scepticism about the word 'fellowship', associating it with churches he never connected with.
However, through his recovery, Nelson has come to view fellowship as the glue that binds all aspects of sobriety together. Meetings, literature, and sponsors are crucial, but fellowship acts as the sun around which everything else revolves. Nelson's reflections during the COVID era highlight how fellowship extends beyond traditional definitions of friendship. It's not just about sharing phone numbers or catching up after meetings; it's about building a network of recovery allies who support each other.
These connections don't need to involve golf outings or movie nights. Instead, they focus on recovery and living a life of service and usefulness. The episode dives into how sober friendships can help avoid the pitfalls of old habits. Nelson shares how reconnecting with old friends sometimes leads to invitations he no longer wishes to accept - like trips to casinos or strip clubs.
With sober friends, he finds a safer space where he doesn't have to worry about unwanted temptations. Nelson also touches on the importance of being a true friend. A real friend supports you but also challenges you when necessary. Gone are the days when Nelson wanted friends who would cover for his bad behaviours. Now, he seeks friends who hold him accountable and help him grow.
So, if you're curious about how fellowship can transform your recovery journey, this episode offers plenty of food for thought. Nelson's humorous yet honest approach might just inspire you to rethink your own connections.