Danish Bashir
Danish Bashir
I am so Stupid
I am so Stupid
I am so Stupid
Friday 2nd February 2024
Danish Bashir explains why falling for a narcissist doesn't mean you're stupid. Discover the tactics they use and how to heal from the manipulation.
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Episode Overview
- Narcissists use charm to mask their true intentions.
- They create an illusion of perfection that's hard to see through.
- Narcissists prey on emotional vulnerability.
- Isolation is a tactic to control and manipulate victims.
- Victims often blame themselves, perpetuating the cycle of abuse.
How could I have seen anything coming when all I saw was a mirage?
Falling for a narcissist can leave you feeling foolish and questioning your own judgement. In this episode, Danish Bashir, a certified clinical trauma specialist, tackles the nagging question many survivors face: 'Am I stupid for falling for a narcissist?' Danish dives into five compelling reasons why you are not to blame for getting entangled with a narcissist.
He begins with the 'charm offensive', explaining how narcissists' irresistible charisma can overshadow their true intentions, making it nearly impossible to see through their facade. It's like being under a love spell that blinds you to their predatory nature. Danish then discusses the 'illusion of perfection', where narcissists present a flawless exterior that conceals their true selves. This well-crafted facade can fool anyone, making it hard to detect their manipulative behaviour.
Next, he addresses 'emotional vulnerability', highlighting how narcissists prey on people during their weakest moments, offering support only to exploit them later. Danish also explores how narcissists use 'isolation' to control their victims, cutting them off from friends and family to dominate their perception of reality. Finally, he talks about 'denial and self-blame', explaining how victims often rationalise their abuser's actions and blame themselves, perpetuating the cycle of abuse.
By breaking down these tactics, Danish aims to help you understand that falling for a narcissist is not a reflection of your intelligence but a testament to their cunning manipulation. If you've ever blamed yourself for being deceived by a narcissist, this episode offers a compassionate perspective and practical advice to help you heal and move forward.