The Paradox of 'I Swear I'll Stop Tomorrow'
Episode Overview
Addiction often involves sincere promises to stop, yet the brain justifies continued use. Substance use becomes a priority over basic needs due to rearranged priorities. The addictive cycle can be likened to procrastination – knowing you should stop but finding it hard. 'I swear I'll stop' can be replaced with 'I need help' for better understanding. Support and compassion are crucial in helping individuals make the choice to seek help.
"Whenever they say this and mean it, it kind of makes you wonder, why can't they just stop?"
Retrieving Sanity presents a heartfelt exploration into the struggles of addiction, focusing on the paradoxical phrase 'I Swear I’ll Stop... Tomorrow'. Hosted by Tanner Keegan Read, this episode tackles the complex nature of addiction and the solemn promises often made by those grappling with it. The discussion highlights how individuals sincerely mean to stop their substance use, yet find themselves unable to break free due to the cunning nature of their brain's justifications.
Keegan delves into the perplexing reality where addiction rearranges priorities, likening it to returning home to find your living room transformed into a zoo. The substance becomes paramount, eclipsing basic needs like food and shelter. The episode offers a glimpse into the mind of someone battling addiction, explaining how their brain convinces them they need just one more drink or dose.
Using relatable metaphors, Keegan compares the addictive cycle to binge-watching late-night TV or scrolling through social media – you know you should stop, but there's always room for one more laugh or video. This cycle becomes all-consuming for those with addiction, making it hard to break free. Keegan emphasises the importance of compassion and support, urging listeners to replace 'I swear I'll stop' with 'I need help'.
He explains that while the choice to get help lies with the individual, understanding and non-judgemental support from friends and family can make a significant difference. If you've ever wondered why stopping seems impossible despite sincere intentions, this episode provides a candid look at the challenges faced by those with addiction. It's a call to extend a helping hand and understand that beneath every 'I swear I'll stop' is a cry for assistance.