If You Were Sent This, Please Listen - Part 3If You Were Sent This, Please Listen - Part 3
Till The Wheels Fall Off
Matt and Paige Robinson discuss balancing recovery and relationships, emphasizing empathy and mutual support.
47:40•20 Oct 2023
Balancing Love and Recovery: Insights from Matt & Paige Robinson
Episode Overview
- Explore the challenges and triumphs of collaborative recovery
- Emphasize the need for accountability and empathy
- Offer a refreshing perspective on the partner's journey in recovery
- Share personal anecdotes and insightful reflections
- Highlight the transformative potential of mutual support
“I was not aware. We bought into this whole disease model thing. I was like really well i mean i kind of looked at you i was like well no i mean about the behaviors the abuse oh okay okay like let's forget about that stuff right i was like okay i came out of treatment i'm like you good are we good we're good right okay let's move on yeah that's how it went yeah i knew one day i would have to make amends to you for lying for spending money we didn't have for really that was that was basically it for lying taking money that we didn't have for being dishonest about things but i didn't even know what gaslighting was right i didn't realize i was even doing that right i was doing it but yeah i didn't realize what invalidating someone's emotions was i didn't know what that even looked like i had no clue what any of that stuff was so you probably don't either but just trust me that this stuff happened if you're listening this stuff took place so i'm not a saint like i didn't realize how bad my actions had truly affected my wife i knew on the surface level like i lied lied. We didn't have, I'd done a lot of things that were bad, but moving forward early on, I think was really necessary in some ways.”
Imagine navigating the choppy waters of addiction recovery while trying to keep a relationship afloat. In this episode of 'Till The Wheels Fall Off', Matt and Paige Robinson tackle this very challenge head-on. They dive into the often unspoken reality that while the person in recovery focuses on healing, their partner's world doesn't stop spinning.
The duo emphasizes the importance of empathy and understanding from both sides, shedding light on how crucial it is to balance new routines and triggers with the needs of a relationship. Through heartfelt stories and practical advice, Matt and Paige offer a unique perspective on how to hold space for each other’s experiences, validating emotions without losing sight of personal growth.
Their candid discussion underscores that recovery isn't just a solo journey but a collaborative effort that can lead to profound healing and resilience. Whether you're in recovery or supporting someone who is, this episode is a must-listen for anyone looking to foster deeper connections and mutual support.
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