Parenting Young Adults: Insights from Dr. Marcus Rodriguez
Episode Overview
Problem behaviours in young adults often mask deeper issues like sadness. Parents should remain calm and not match their child's emotional dysregulation. Curiosity about a child's needs is crucial for effective support. Social media can exacerbate feelings of helplessness and anxiety. Practical advice is offered for maintaining supportive parent-child relationships.
"It's not that simple. But it's still a necessary starting point. It's like, don't match their dysregulation with your own."
What drives a young adult to act out in anger, anxiety, or avoidance? Dr. Marcus Rodriguez joins hosts Jacqueline Trumbull and Dr. Kibby McMahon to dissect the behaviours of young adults struggling with emotional regulation. In this engaging conversation, Dr. Rodriguez, a seasoned expert in family dynamics and mental health, explains how what parents often perceive as problem behaviours might actually be their child's way of coping with deeper issues.
He shares fascinating insights into how these behaviours are not the root problem but rather a symptom of unaddressed sadness and helplessness. Listeners will find Dr. Rodriguez's explanation of the secondary emotions—like anger and anxiety—that mask primary feelings of sadness to be eye-opening. He also sheds light on how today's tech-driven world exacerbates these issues, with social media platforms feeding distressing content that young minds are not yet equipped to process.
The discussion touches on how parents can offer support without matching their child's emotional dysregulation with their own, providing a calm presence that helps their children feel understood. This episode is a treasure trove of practical advice for parents seeking to better understand and support their young adult children through challenging times. Dr. Rodriguez encourages parents to remain curious about their child's needs and to provide an environment where those needs can be safely expressed and addressed.
Are you ready to redefine what it means to support your child? Tune in for insights that could transform your approach to parenting.