Tackling Tough Questions: Navigating Addiction & Intervention
Episode Overview
Recognise manipulation tactics used by addicts. Set clear boundaries without guilt. Use legal situations as leverage for positive change. Hold loved ones accountable for their actions. Balance unconditional love with firm expectations.
"Don't take responsibility for something that you have absolutely no control over"
In this episode of The Party Wreckers, hosts Matt Brown and Sam Davis tackle some of the toughest questions submitted by listeners about addiction and intervention. With decades of experience as addiction interventionists, Matt and Sam provide candid answers that are both informative and relatable. They dive into the complexities of setting boundaries, dealing with manipulation tactics, and the emotional rollercoaster that comes with loving someone who struggles with addiction.
Matt shares his own experiences as a recovering addict, offering a unique perspective on how fear and doubt can be used as manipulation tools by those resistant to treatment. The episode also explores the guilt associated with setting boundaries and how it often stems from a place of codependency. Matt encourages listeners to confront these feelings head-on, emphasising the importance of maintaining clear expectations in relationships.
He advises parents and spouses to hold their loved ones accountable for their actions and choices, while still offering unconditional love. The discussion takes a practical turn when addressing late-night calls for bail money. Matt suggests using such situations as leverage for positive change, advocating for interventions that involve legal systems to encourage treatment completion. His advice is direct yet compassionate, urging families to resist enabling behaviours and instead promote accountability.
Whether you're dealing with a loved one in jail or struggling with guilt over boundary-setting, this episode offers valuable insights into managing these challenging situations. The blend of personal anecdotes and professional advice makes it a must-listen for anyone navigating the turbulent waters of addiction within their family or social circle. So, if you're seeking guidance on how to support your loved one without losing yourself in the process, tune in for some practical tips and heartfelt encouragement.