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J Hirtle The Last Storyteller
Jim Hirtle talks with author and nurse Marie Mckenzie about her experience of childhood sexual abuse, the limits of traditional care, and what life can look like after healing. Their conversation touches on faith, forgiveness, community and the ongoing work of turning survival into hope and purpose.
31:45•12 Aug 2026
From Trauma to Purpose: Marie Mckenzie on Life After Healing
Episode Overview
- Silence around sexual assault is often driven by shame, fear of disbelief and family pressure, leaving many survivors without support for decades.
- Acknowledging traumatic experiences, whether privately or publicly, is a necessary step before meaningful healing can begin.
- Healing is not a straight line; setbacks do not mean failure, and joy can still emerge after difficult days.
- Trauma-informed care in healthcare settings can bridge the gap between immediate treatment and long-term recovery for survivors.
- Life after healing involves rebuilding trust in yourself, finding purpose and connecting with community to create a rich, meaningful future.
“You cannot heal what you're not acknowledging, whether you do it publicly or not.”
What drives someone to seek a life beyond trauma and pain? This episode of J Hirtle’s "The Last Storyteller" spends time with author and trauma-informed educator Marie Mckenzie, whose work centres on life after sexual assault and the long, uneven path from sheer survival towards hope. You’ll hear Marie describe her journey as a survivor of childhood sexual abuse at age eleven, growing up in a culture where children were "seen and not heard" and carrying that secret for decades.
She explains how silence, shame and fear stop many survivors from speaking, and why her own healing began with finally ripping the bandage off: "You cannot heal what you're not acknowledging, whether you do it publicly or not." Drawing on more than 25 years as an emergency room nurse, Marie talks about the harsh gap between what survivors need and what typical hospital care offers.
She outlines her RISE trauma-informed care framework, aimed at helping healthcare professionals recognise trauma, create safety and support recovery long after the ER visit ends. The conversation turns to faith, forgiveness and the tricky idea that trauma is "not a gift" and God is never to blame for the actions of abusers. Marie stresses that forgiveness is about releasing the burden you were never meant to carry, not about letting perpetrators back into your life.
Her book "What Happens After You Heal" focuses on what comes next: rebuilding trust in yourself, finding purpose, and creating a "rich and meaningful life" on your own terms, often within community. She reassures survivors that healing is not a straight line—good days and hard days both belong in the process—and that joy is still possible.
If you or someone you care about is wrestling with old wounds, this gentle yet direct conversation may help you ask a crucial question: what might hope look like for you, starting today?
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