Paige Robinson on Communication: It's Not What You Say
Episode Overview
Communication isn't always the solution; focus on respect and values. Trying to control outcomes can lead to exhaustion and frustration. Effective communication involves presence, curiosity, and responsibility. Let go of perfect phrasing; it's more about fear management than real talk. Align your communication with your values for clarity, not control.
You don’t need better communication. You need better alignment.
In this episode of Till The Wheels Fall Off, Paige Robinson challenges the common belief that communication is the cure-all for relationship woes. With her characteristic blend of humour and honesty, Paige argues that many of us are barking up the wrong tree. It's not your communication skills that need an overhaul; it's the respect and values within the relationship that might be lacking.
She paints a vivid picture of how we often twist ourselves into knots trying to find the perfect words, hoping they'll magically fix everything. But, as Paige points out, that's more about managing fear than genuine communication. Paige takes listeners on a journey through the pitfalls of communication with an agenda. She highlights the exhausting cycle of rewording, softening, and waiting for the 'right' moment – all in the hope that this time, things will change.
But she emphasises that true connection isn't about bargaining; it's about being honest and letting go of the outcome. Through relatable anecdotes, Paige sheds light on what effective communication looks like in a healthy relationship. It involves staying present, taking responsibility, and showing curiosity. She encourages listeners to shift their focus from finding the magic words to building relationships where both parties are genuinely invested in understanding and growth.
So, if you're tired of walking on eggshells and rehearsing conversations in your head, this episode offers a refreshing perspective. Paige's insights might just inspire you to rethink your approach to communication and embrace a path that's less about control and more about clarity. Tune in for a dose of real talk and perhaps a nudge towards healthier relationships.