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Emotional Sobriety: The Next Step in Recovery
For this week’s nutshell, prioritizing comfort will eventually make us very uncomfortable. We talk amends and pull some wisdom from Arthur Schopenhaur (via Joe C.’s “Beyond Belief”). Sending love and emotional sobriety to you all this holiday. We’ll be back for one more in 2025. Learn more about Joe C., Secular AA and Rebellion Dogs here: https://rebelliondogspublishing.com Follow us on social media. Instagram: thomrutledge2 Joe C. Twitter: @Rebellion_Dogs Friendly Circle Berlin Workshop Group meets every Monday @ 7:30pm (Berlin), 6:30pm (Ireland & UK), 1:30pm EST, 10:30am PST Zoom Link: https://us02web.zoom.us/j/5505019905 Allen’s book, 12 Essential Insights for Emotional Sobriety: https://www.amazon.com/12-Essential-Insights-Emotional-Sobriety/dp/1955415129/ Join Allen & Thom at our Thursday night, 7pm PST Zoom meeting on Emotional Sobriety and the Steps (login information below): https://zoom.us/j/330149513 Password: 375986 For our ongoing workshop video series on Emotional Sobriety and the 12 Steps, visit our YouTube channel here: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCHEM2-kqLkfp3I4c0jy-X-g Also, please join our “Emotional Sobriety and Recovery” FB Group at the following link: https://www.facebook.com/groups/120450976662519 We’d love to stay in touch in between meetings. We appreciate feedback! Contact Patrick, our producer, at pndirective4@gmail.com for any questions or comments.
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Finding Strength in Sobriety: Comfort vs Growth
Episode Overview
- Prioritising comfort can lead to discomfort; growth requires pushing boundaries.
- Aligning with reality is crucial for emotional sobriety.
- Self-care should be a respite, not a constant state.
- Redefine success by effort and attitude, not just outcomes.
- Making amends is a significant part of recovery.
“"We want to claim our experience; we don't want it to claim us."”
How do people find strength in their journey to sobriety? In this episode of 'Emotional Sobriety: The Next Step in Recovery,' Thom Rutledge and Dr. Allen Berger take listeners on a reflective journey through the paradoxes of comfort and growth. The episode is a heartfelt exploration of how prioritising comfort can sometimes lead to discomfort, and why pushing boundaries is essential for personal growth.
Drawing wisdom from philosophers like Arthur Schopenhauer and real-life anecdotes, the hosts discuss the importance of aligning with reality and the dangers of being stuck in a cycle of avoidance. Listeners are treated to a candid discussion about the balance between self-care and self-support, highlighting how comfort should be a respite rather than a constant state.
The hosts share personal stories, including a poignant moment of making amends with a past co-worker, illustrating how recovery isn't just about abstaining from alcohol but also about transforming one's relationship with it. They also touch upon the cultural pressures to constantly 'feel good' and how this mindset can hinder true maturity. With light humour and profound reflections, Thom and Allen encourage listeners to redefine success, not by outcomes but by effort and attitude.
This episode is not just for those in recovery but for anyone seeking to understand the deeper layers of personal growth and emotional sobriety. So, what does success look like for you in your journey? Dive into this episode to reflect on your own path.
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