Sophie B Hawkins: Music, Sobriety & New Beginnings
Episode Overview
Sophie B Hawkins shares her journey from a troubled childhood to sobriety. Music became Sophie's escape from a household affected by alcoholism. Her Aunt Linda played a crucial role in introducing her to African drumming. Sophie discusses the challenges she faced in the music industry. Upcoming UK performance marks a new phase in Sophie's career.
"Alcohol was the most important thing to them, it seemed."
In this special bonus episode of One For The Road, David Wilson, also known as Sober Dave, welcomes the iconic singer-songwriter Sophie B Hawkins for a heartfelt conversation. Sophie, who has a fascinating musical career spanning over three decades, shares stories about her upbringing in Manhattan and the shadow of alcohol that loomed over her family life. Her parents were both alcoholics, which deeply impacted her childhood.
Sophie candidly discusses how she hit rock bottom at 14 and decided to stop drinking, choosing instead to pursue her passion for music. Her journey from experimenting with substances to finding solace in African drumming is a testament to her resilience and determination. Sophie recounts how her Aunt Linda introduced her to an African drum teacher, which set her on a path towards becoming a musician.
This pivotal moment led to her attending the Manhattan School of Music and eventually shifting her focus to songwriting. Her big break came when her demo tape was discovered, leading to a record deal that catapulted her to fame with hits like "Damn, I Wish I Was Your Lover". Throughout the episode, Sophie reflects on the challenges she faced in the music industry and the personal battles she overcame.
She emphasises the importance of finding community and support, whether through AA or other avenues, to combat isolation. As Sophie prepares for her upcoming UK performance at The Forge in Camden, she shares her excitement about this new phase in her career and life, which she calls her "third act". If you're curious about how someone can transform their life despite a difficult start, this episode is a must-listen.
Sophie’s story is one of courage and reinvention—proving that it's never too late to free oneself and embrace new beginnings.