Finding Strength in the Shadows: Dr. Zoe Shaw's Journey
Episode Overview
Complex shame requires more than compassion to heal. Shame often hides behind people-pleasing and co-dependency. Faith can be a crucial part of the healing process. Creating a shame-free environment benefits relationships. Understanding personal shame stories is key to healing.
"When you carry shame, you hide. It affects your relationships because when we are hiding, we know we're hiding things."
How do people find strength in their journey to sobriety? In a heartfelt episode of 'Anchored by the Sword,' Gina Fox sits down with Dr. Zoe Shaw, a licensed psychotherapist, author, and mother of five. Dr.
Shaw shares her compelling journey through shame, identity, and healing, which led her to write her new book, 'Stronger in the Difficult Places.' Her story is one of resilience, having navigated complex shame from a young age, including a hidden teenage pregnancy and the challenges of reconciling with her past. Dr. Shaw's candid discussion reveals how she untangled her shame and found healing, offering listeners practical advice on dealing with similar issues.
She touches on the importance of recognising and addressing 'complex shame'—a form that doesn't easily dissipate with mere compassion from others. Dr. Shaw's insights are particularly relevant for those dealing with addiction or co-dependency issues. Gina and Dr. Shaw also explore how societal pressures and personal experiences can shape one's identity and how faith can play a pivotal role in healing. The episode is filled with moments of reflection, as Dr.
Shaw discusses the impact of her journey on her relationship with her family and faith. Listeners will appreciate the honest exploration of how shame can affect relationships and self-worth, and the importance of breaking free from its grip. Dr. Shaw's wisdom is a guiding light for anyone struggling with similar issues, making this episode both enlightening and encouraging. What can you learn from those who've battled their inner demons and emerged stronger? Tune in to find out.