The Allure of Regret: Why We Hold On and How to Let GoThe Allure of Regret: Why We Hold On and How to Let Go
Audio/Video – The Freedom Model For Addictions
Stuck in regret? Mark and Michelle explain why it happens, how it shapes you, and how to finally let go and move forward.
40:24•23 Apr 2025
Breaking Free from the Chains of Regret
Episode Overview
- Regret often provides a false sense of stability.
- Mindfulness can help break the cycle of habitual negative thoughts.
- Learning from past experiences is more beneficial than dwelling on them.
- Challenging and disregarding habitual thoughts is crucial.
- Embracing a positive future involves letting go of past regrets.
“Regret is the preoccupation with past failure. And the allure of it is the fact that it actually already happened, so there is no risk in thinking about it.”
Feeling stuck in regret? This episode of The Freedom Model for Addictions podcast dives into why we hold on to regret and how it impacts our lives. Hosts Mark Sheeran and Michelle Dunbar tackle the tricky subject of regret, offering insights into why we cling to past mistakes and how we can finally let go to move forward.
They explore the idea that regret is often seen as a form of stability, a way to avoid dealing with present challenges by focusing on past failures. This can lead to a cycle of negative thoughts and hinder personal growth. But don't worry, Mark and Michelle share practical tips on how to break free from this cycle. They discuss the importance of mindfulness, challenging habitual thoughts, and learning from past experiences rather than dwelling on them.
With relatable anecdotes and a touch of humour, they make a complex topic accessible and engaging. So, if you're ready to let go of regret and embrace a more positive future, this episode is for you. Give it a listen and start your journey towards a regret-free life.

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