Saving a Loved One: Cindy Charles Oullette on Tough Love and Desperation
We can love them actually to death and that we can prevent them from hitting a bottom. The thing about this is is that this is where I think it's. Then, if the child has been an addiction for Years and Years and Years and years and you've been enabling them for Years and Years and Years and years and that's doing that, and you know true life, one of the things I say to parents is, you know, in real life, life is about for all of us, all of us, whether we're whether someone's an addiction or not, every human being in life. If they're bad choices, we have bad consequences.
What would you do if someone you love is caught in the throes of addiction? This episode of 'Addiction 911' tackles that heart-wrenching question head-on. Hosted by a team of seasoned experts, the episode features Cindy Charles Oullette, a recovered addict, author, and certified recovery coach, who brings her personal journey and professional insights to the table. Cindy talks about the emotional rollercoaster of trying to save an addicted loved one and the delicate balance between helping and enabling.
One of the standout points she makes is the necessity of allowing an addict to hit rock bottom. It's a tough pill to swallow, but Cindy explains how this moment of 'desperation' can be the turning point that leads to recovery. She shares how 'tough love'—the act of stepping back and letting go—can sometimes be the most loving thing you can do.
Family dynamics also play a crucial role in addiction, and Cindy delves into how codependency can hinder recovery efforts. If you're struggling to support someone battling addiction, this episode offers a blend of hope and practical advice that could make all the difference. Tune in to hear Cindy's heartfelt stories and invaluable tips.