Nelson H.
Nelson H.
The confidence to sponsor
The confidence to sponsor
The confidence to sponsor
Thursday 14th August 2025
Explore the humorous side of sponsorship with Nelson H., as he shares insights on confidence, humility, and community in sobriety.
8 minutes
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Nelson H.
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Sobriety Toolkit
Navigating Challenges in Recovery
Sexual Empowerment & Identity
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Episode Overview
- Being a sponsor is more about personal growth than having all the answers.
- Confidence should be balanced with humility in sponsorship.
- A broad network offers diverse insights and support.
- It's okay not to have all the answers as a sponsor.
- Community plays a vital role in recovery.
"Confidence means believing in yourself and that's it – not screaming at anybody that they need to believe in you too."
In the lively world of sobriety, Nelson H. takes a humorous yet heartfelt approach to the topic of sponsorship in this episode of LOL Sober. He candidly shares his thoughts on what it truly means to be a good sponsor, likening it to the journey of becoming a great husband – there's no checklist, just a lot of personal growth and understanding.
Nelson explores the misconceptions surrounding sponsorship, emphasising that it's not about being a guru with all the answers or having a black belt in recovery. Instead, he believes it's about walking the walk and sharing one's own experiences honestly. Throughout the episode, Nelson discusses the importance of confidence, but not arrogance, in being a sponsor. He highlights how humility plays a crucial role in building genuine connections with sponsees.
Drawing from his own journey, Nelson reflects on how he initially felt the pressure to be perfect, but later realised that it's okay not to have all the answers. The episode also touches on the value of having a broad network in recovery. Nelson encourages listeners to seek advice from multiple voices, as this diversity can provide richer insights and support.
He shares anecdotes about mentors who have guided him without jealousy or possessiveness, showcasing the beauty of community in sobriety. Nelson's humorous storytelling, combined with genuine reflections, makes this episode both entertaining and enlightening. Whether you're new to sobriety or a seasoned sponsor, there's something for everyone to learn and laugh about. So why not tune in and see how Nelson's unique perspective might resonate with your own journey?