This isn't a podcast (it is really) with Tom and ChidsThis isn't a podcast (it is really) with Tom and Chids
Henry westons old mate the podcast
Stuart Butler, Tom Bissett, and Stephen Chidley discuss 'can do, can't do, won't do' attitudes and how determination can overcome self-doubt.
1:01:25•27 Mar 2025
Challenging Can’t-Do Attitudes with Stephen Chidley and Tom Bissett
Episode Overview
- Talent is often overrated; determination is key.
- Social media can distort our views on success.
- Believing you can't do something stops you from trying.
- Personal anecdotes highlight overcoming challenges.
- Mindset plays a crucial role in achieving goals.
“If you start off thinking you can't do something, you'll never try and never get involved as much as you need to.”
Ever wondered what happens when a guest is so unsure about being on a podcast that the hosts pretend it isn’t one? Welcome to the latest episode of Henry Weston's Old Mate the Podcast, where Stuart Butler is joined by Tom Bissett and newcomer Stephen Chidley. This lively chat dives into the mindset of 'can do, can't do, won't do' attitudes, exploring how these beliefs shape our actions and achievements.
Chidley, with his straightforward approach, argues that talent is overrated and that anyone can achieve their goals with enough determination. Bissett adds his perspective on motivation, discussing how social media and societal pressures can skew our perceptions of success. The trio also share personal anecdotes about their experiences in elite performance and the challenges they've faced along the way.
Whether you're looking for a motivational boost or just some good laughs, this episode offers a refreshing take on overcoming self-doubt and pushing past perceived limitations. Ready to challenge your own can’t-do beliefs? Give this episode a listen and see what you might achieve.

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